Gwen M: I miss his perspective on the world. Even when I wasn't talking to him regularly, I could sense he was out there making the world more interesting for those around him. In my mind, Jos was a human symbol of life's possibilities, and I mourn the loss of him that way too.
I have many detailed memories of Jos. The detail is important to me because it's what I have of him, but I'm not sure it's as important to others.